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Post by &&Ðяëāmÿ[ðòñò] on Jul 21, 2008 22:46:24 GMT -5
Ever since I was finishing with fifth grade, I've been bisexual. I'm starting eleventh grade now, and I'm having plans on telling my parents at the end of my senior year. But now that my mom and everyone close to us other than my two aunts out of three and my grandma, found out that my younger sister has been having sex, last night, my mom said that she would not be bothered if we were having sex if using protection, or if we preffered women or both. I wanted to ask my preacher from church today when I saw him visiting the childrens hospitle where my four year old cousin was having a dangerous spider bite removed off of her skin covering her pelvic bone I believe, but I couldn't get myself to tell and ask him for advice. It seems easier to tell my friends at school and people on the net more than it is my family and other friends. I've no idea what I should do and if I should tell them now or stick to the old one. I've seen many shows with gays and such and they've all been kicked out or disowned by their familys. I don't want to end up the same way, not able to see my two cousins Jessica or Andrea because of who I am. What should I do you guys? Cause I don't know anymore. |
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Post by l u n a on Jul 22, 2008 22:21:26 GMT -5
Check your PMs at WU.
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Post by --B r e n n a n -- on Jul 23, 2008 15:29:56 GMT -5
I posted in SixClans ^^
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Post by Rose on Jul 24, 2008 12:11:03 GMT -5
Well Dreamy I can't really help on this subject, if your parents were fine with your sister and have already said that they would be OK with it I think you shoud be fine. I personally would get the parent your closest to on their own, not for th purpose of telling them but spending some time together, then finally just say "I think I'm bisexual". If they're under a lot of stress at the moment I'd wait until they're calmer, I hope this has helped but I don't have experience- also, my Uncle is gay and when he came clean (aged 45) we just accepted it, we'd always thought that and we're happy for him. He finds it easier now, he's a little uncomfortable talking about it but we don't mind. Just to let you know that not all familys disown others when they find out they're gay!
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Post by --B r e n n a n -- on Jul 24, 2008 16:22:04 GMT -5
I don't think families disown at all any more, Rose  |
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Post by l u n a on Jul 24, 2008 19:54:49 GMT -5
Yeah. I mean unless your family is against gay rights - I mean, pay attention to their faces when the subject comes up on the radio or TV or whatever. Or read a book about some gay protagonist and describe it to them and watch their expressions. Anyway, once you're ready to tell them - which you undoubtedly should at some point - you can write them a letter if you can't get the words out. You got my PM...
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Post by --B r e n n a n -- on Jul 28, 2008 16:04:51 GMT -5
Actually my whole family is big against gay ... ism. But I'm not really. I still love you dreamy!
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Post by l u n a on Jul 28, 2008 19:43:27 GMT -5
I'm glad you're not. I'm bi, too.... it scares me to think that some people would hate me if they knew that. But Dreamy, from what your mom said about your sister, it seems like she will be fine with you.
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Post by Rose on Jul 29, 2008 6:11:53 GMT -5
Dreamy did it go alright?
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Post by &&Ðяëāmÿ[ðòñò] on Jul 29, 2008 13:26:43 GMT -5
Give me a bit. I haven't told them yet, it's only been two days after my birthday and they are finding me to be the perfect and sweet child right now. ^^' |
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Post by Rose on Jul 29, 2008 13:45:35 GMT -5
 Good luck |
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Post by l u n a on Jul 30, 2008 16:46:23 GMT -5
Yeah, same from me.  |
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Good luck